One of the most beautiful thing that can happen to you in life is to be an answer to somebody’s prayers. It is such a joyful and fulfilling feeling. Allowing ourselves to be an instrument of blessing to someone else is such a huge blessing to humanity and to us as an individual. Each time…
One of the reasons why you need to stand on the shoulders of giants who make something leap in you regarding your vision and dream is so that you can gain clarity regarding your own journey and vision. You might not be able to have a direct access to some of them, but when the…
Who is a visionary woman? A visionary woman is a woman who thinks about, and plans her future with imagination and wisdom. She has envisioned a future, and she is on a mission to make that future a reality. She is a woman who has had an encounter, she has her eyes set on a…
Plus sized women are a big target for people who love to body shame others. And the part which surprises me is how some plus sized women cower, and allow themselves to be body shamed while they stew, and resign to this shame. One thing that can NEVER affect me is body shaming. I have…
Often times we do not celebrate out growths enough. We are so fixated on what others think about our growth and we allow them kill our joy in the process. We are not grateful for our little wins so we allow the joy to be easily drained out of us by what people think. Your…
Self sufficiency can simply be defined as the ability to be contented with what you have, and in yourself. It means to be emotionally and intellectually independent. It means you are enough, and you know it. This is a beautiful state of mind to attain, and it makes life so rich and peaceful. It means…
The title of this blog post is funny, I know hahaha. Here was how it came about………… I was listening to a conversation between some women recently and two of these women were full of so much anger for the people who didn’t congratulate them on a new achievement. I smiled, while at the same…
Our society is so wired up in such a way that people want you to FIT IN irrespective of what you stand for. If you do not fit in, they are going to find a way to punish you for STANDING OUT. And when you look around, you see and hear people tell you directly…
Deola is a christian, on Sunday her Pastor called her into his office and the following conversation ensued. “Hello, sister Deola, how are you today?” “I am fine Pastor, bless you sir.” ‘Bless you sister Deola, I need your help.” “Here is sister Margaret, she needs an accommodation for the next one month pending when…
Sometimes in December, one of our employees at my place of work had his birthday, and as the HR manager, the duty fell on me to get him a cake. So I went to scout for a cake in the shops around the corner of my office. I saw a well decorated cake which would…
The word USER has been confined to fit into a box. When you hear USER, you immediately think of that person who is coming after you because of the financial or material help they can get from you. Sometimes we even imagine a love affair where one party has used and dumped the other lol…
Happy, happy new year!!! It’s a new year already, and there is something special about this year, its 20/20 meaning 20 over 20! How do you feel when you score 20/20 in secondary school back then? You feel on top of the world, you feel liberated, You feel like a star! This year is giving…
“Eh eh, eh, Deaconess Martha come and hear something oooo,” Deaconess Bimpe whispered to Deaconess Martha on the corridor of the vestry while they were preparing for the Sunday service. “What is it” deaconess Martha asked curiously. “Hmmmm it’s your Pastor o, Deacon Okafor and Elder Malaolu have written a petition against him and forwarded…
UNPUTDOWNABLE is a word I coined for the state of mind of not giving a hoot about negative criticisms and the harsh judgement of humans. If you have ever felt judged, misunderstood, slandered or defamed you would understand how painful it feels. However the world is not a fair play ground, and the moment you…
Hello, to my readers who have been following the series “TALE OF THE JURISTIANS” from Facebook, I am posting episode 22 here intentionally so you can have a reminder of where we stopped, and we will continue sharing this series on the blog going forward, so please subscribe to my blog after reading this episode…
