MASTERING BOUNDARIES
Clearly identify what you’re comfortable with and what you’re not. This could involve setting limits on your time, energy, emotions, or physical space.
October 22, 2023
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Clearly identify what you’re comfortable with and what you’re not. This could involve setting limits on your time, energy, emotions, or physical space.
Your energy is an integral part of your life and being, and you owe yourself a duty of care to protect it diligently. When your energy is affected or poisoned with negativity, it can actually spiral your life downwards and affect your progress drastically in the process. Your energy is connected to your peace of…
Personal development cuts across every area of our lives. You must make effort to improve in your personal development each and every day. You need to build your potentials, your social and human capital, build your capabilities to manage life accordingly and evolve against all odds. Personal development is so very crucial, and it helps…
The social media has now become a part of our reality, gone were those days where many people sneer at social media usage and being active online. These days many more people have embraced the social media, and this includes the older generation between ages of 60 and even 80. They are now very active…
I remembered how clueless I was when I wanted to build my first website. It felt like magic, and that it was not a female territory. The only boldness I had then to even consider it was that the Holy Spirit had told me to START BLOGGING. I started to research, and I found myself…
One of the things that I love to do is to give visibility to women who are creatives, very skilled and are walking a purposeful path. As an Identity Coach and a woman who has had to find her path by self-discovery, I have CONSISTENTLY used my business and platform at Hadar Creations to help…
“Moving on is godly.” A refusal or an inability not to be able to move on from any situation or circumstances in our lives when it is clear that we need to move on, is a form of idolatry. Understand that Moving On is not Giving Up, but until you move on sometimes you have…
I have always written and talked against Self Comparison and Unhealthy Competition, I want to remind you today that you owe yourself the duty of care to protect your spirit and mind against those who compare you to others or compare themselves to you. I am not talking about strangers here, I am referring to…
Procrastination can be defined as the act of delaying or postposing something. Your brain is wired to protect you from danger and failure that is why you procrastinate. The day I learnt and understood this was the day I kicked procrastination in the butt and moved. Your brain is wired to protect you, and part…
“It is not everyone who is good to you that you must open your life to. There are some people that must be left at the “sitting room” of your life, no matter how good they are to you. Some at the gate, some just in the compound, some at the front door, some at…
It was with utmost joy and a sense of fulfilment that the founder of Colourful Hope International Tolulope Ajayi inaugurated Colourful Hope International on the 13th of August 2020. This amazing woman is a trail blazer, and her intentionality towards life is inspiring and worthy of emulation. Hadar Creations had a chat with her, and…
Women have a lot to grapple with when it comes to building a family and building a career. It can be very overwhelming for a woman having to create a new family for herself and also trying at the same time to create a life for herself. I remembered when I was in the second…
Some of us have been hard pressed with disappointments and life has thrown at us things that we never imagined. We are where we never thought we would someday be and have lost a lot. I just want to remind you that your mess doesn’t disqualify you, but the final defeat that will make the…
The hallmark of true friendship is Truthfulness, Love and Sacrifices I have never seen any friendship that survives without these three key factors. We all know that it is very rare now to find true friendship, BUT IT SURE DOES EXIST. However, nowadays most of what we see around are strife, unhealthy competition, envy, jealousy,…
Many years ago, a woman and her two children came to visit our family from a nearby town. I think they came from Abeokuta. They came unannounced…my parents were not expecting them either. They were distant relatives to my dad. My dad used to be so strict o, and he wont take that from anyone…