One of the lessons that I have learnt from my own life is never to think that I know what anyone is up to or doing with their life.
You could think you know someone and you start to draw conclusions about their life or even pity them, and boom they shock you with a Testimony, or their life takes a 360 degree turn around.
Never assume that you know people or conclude about their lives more than what they show you.
A lot of people operate silently and stealthily, thinking you know them, or judging them based on what you think you know or see can dig a pit of shame for you or plunge you into pain.
I have seen people who do not recover from the shock of the fact that they thought they had seen all there is to someone, and boom they were taken by a huge surprise.
This is why I laugh when people scream blue murder that they were with someone yesterday and boom the person called them from the United kingdom tomorrow that they had relocated 😀
Always operate and deal with people with wisdom.
Don’t be quick to think that you have seen the entirety of someone.
Resist the urge to think that you know more than what you see even if you do.
Inability to obey this rule is why many people misfire or jam talk.
You could call someone barren over the phone today and fiam next week you hear that they delivered a set of twins 😮😀😀
They might even be the one who wronged you, but you acted in foolishness and spoke wrongly in anger.
Use your mouth and mind wisely o.
It is wisdom, and it will keep your honour.