Rejection is part of life and you shouldn’t be scared about been rejected.
The moment you are scared about been rejected, you become scared of making a move.
Let me share with you a little story of my life.Immediately I graduated from school, I knew it was time to face life.
I have always lived with this parable *RATHER THAN LIFE SHOULD FACE ME, I WILL FACE LIFE*
Very funny but it’s a thoughtful word. Immediately I graduated from school in 2019, I took ill, that was the most challenging part of my life.
I had a life, a life filled with Joy, so many people wanted my kind of life, I get everything I want, my parents gave me everything that should be given to a child.
Immediately I fell ill, so many things came crashing down, I saw myself as a liability. Gosh, how I hated that phase.
Everybody was doing everything for me, the calls and text became to extreme and uncomfortable, I felt it has ended.
Along the line I told my mum I would love to learn fashion design, but there was no money, I knew there was no money, so much has been spent already, I got tired of sitting at home.
I told myself that I am a light and for a light to shine bright it must be exposed, you can’t hide a light and expect it to illuminate a room, never!!
I told my mum I was going to approach someone in our church and explain things to her. Well that faithfull Sunday afternoon service, I walked up to this woman, she’s a fashion designer.
I told her I would love to learn but I don’t have money, I was scared for the worst because I have been warned already.
I closed my eyes while I took a deep breath, I opened my eyes and found her staring at me. She smiled and told me that I am welcome to her shop.
I was already crying inside, I can be very emotional. I jumped for Joy.
The following day, I took my savings, bought biscuits and soft drinks, I told my mum to accompany me that I am going to start work.
It started like a joke. 🤗🤗 I learnt fashion design from the month of November 2019 to March 2021.
Today I am grateful for that step I took. But then I choose to ask you. *FOR YOU NOT TO BE REJECTED WHAT VALUE DO YOU HAVE TO OFFER?
ARE YOU SOMEONE WHO HAS A DEEP VALUE SYSTEM OR YOU ARE JUST THERE?
FOR EVERY STEP I TAKE, I TAKE A DEEP BREATH KNOWING THAT I MUST FIRST BE A PERSON OF VALUE.
YOU HAVE TO BE A VALUE FIRST FOR YOU TO BE VALUABLE.
