“Often, as humans, we are not always vocal with our boundaries and if you are not vocal about your boundaries, then people will not understand what your boundary is.
The onus lies on you to be vocal and to communicate your boundary to people that you relate with or to people that you are in a relationship with.
So boundary means what is okay with you and what is not okay with you. And one thing I have realized is that when you allow people to get away with what is not okay with you, perhaps you allow people to get away or cross your boundary, you become hateful and resentful because it means that they are violating you and this is why you must communicate your boundary.
And in order not to become hateful and resentful, if you want to live a wholesome life, you should communicate your boundary to people at every point in time. So, whosoever that is not comfortable with your boundary, will not relate with you.
When you communicate your boundary and someone can’t relate to it, they have the option of leaving if they are not comfortable with your boundary.”
