Oluwatosin O. Arodudu

On the rivalry between singles and married.

I honestly do not understand this rivalry between unmarried and married women. The belittling and the condescending attitudes on both sides is alarming. Recently I have noticed that the condescending attitude is more rampant amongst single ladies.

I don’t know the extent the married women have gone to spur the single ladies into reacting like this, but what I know is that some single ladies are on a mission to continuously denigrate marriage to validate themselves.

Hey sister let me tell you something, no matter how you denigrate the marital union, being married to a good spouse is beautiful, and if you just stop being bitter towards every married woman, then you will also marry and marry right.

Stop seeing every married woman as a threat to your peace of mind,

Stop viewing every married woman who displays her happiness on social media as a pretender. Some people are indeed happy and cannot contain it.

Stop being happy at their predicament should you be privileged to know it.

Stop justifying the fact that their husband is committing adultery.

Stop supporting side chics in order to validate yourself.

Stop jeering at married women whose husbands are cheating

Stop beating your chest and using your palm to hit the ground to deal with any married woman that crosses your path as regards her husband being with you. I mean this is the part that irritates me, and I tell you, you have not met a crazy married woman yet. A woman that is like a wounded lion who is so bitter and ready to destroy you, perhaps if you meet one you would stop all this hitting of chest and vile threats.

And to every married woman acting as if the  world revolves around you and being single is a disease, CHANGE, you are the problem. It is people like you that scar little girls into adulthood on the fear of never getting married.

Stop despising single ladies, to think that some of you even visited mountains and fasted for years before God finally answered you, yet you despise those walking the same path, may God forgive you.

Happy evening.

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