DEAR HUSBAND, SOMEDAY, I WOULD SMELL IRU(LOCUST BEANS)
amala and okro soup and it flew against your wife clothes, whilst trying to put the living room in order once again, even though she had earlier kept it neat for your home coming, you came in at that particular time, and she has this weak and tired look on her face, gave you a side hug and the smell hit you so hard! Gosh why is she smelling so awful and not excited?
Dear husband, please calm down, be more empathetic, be less judgmental, take a step back and analyse your wife’s typical day, don’t forget she also went to work like you, don’t forget she has to keep the kids in check, she has to make sure home work is done, she has to mediate between them when they have squabbles, she has to cook and also feed them especially the toddlers who don’t want to do anything. Your wife might want to curl up and sleep away, but she’s not afforded that luxury, she has to, she has to, she has to, lest the home runs down the drain.
Pamper her please, understand her more, pet her often, empathise with her, love her and help around the house more often, this is the secret to a loving and sweet woman, she would worship the ground you walk on, she would stand behind you solidly and she would not allow anything jeopardise your happiness since you have validated hers.
